30 is a big deal. Those who crossed this line already can probably nod their heads. Although they may not be feeling jittery anymore– as 32 is just like being 22 
— they must have also felt edgy before hitting the dreaded 3.
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On my 31st year, one of the first things I’d like to do is make more time for the people who mattered in my life. I’d like to reconnect with them, as most of them have been out of my radar for years now.
I’d like to make them feel appreciated; not that I didn’t thank them enough, but because it’s a reality that accurate appraisals come much later in life.
I’d also like to focus on appreciating people more, particularly those who matter in my life now. I am aware that life is fleeting even if you live to be 80, and I honestly don’t want mine to fly-by without being grateful and telling the world that I am.
I’d like to try to be more forgiving; to love even those who are not exactly lovable, and to pray for those who have done, who do, and who are thinking of doing us wrong.
I’d like to exercise more patience, especially towards my child, who’s growing up so fast, and who’s in need of a great role model to live a fulfilling life.
I’d like to be a better wife; to see my husband as my other half AT ALL TIMES. I want to spend better years with him, so together we can give more thanks to God.
I’d like to be a more loving daughter; to honor my parents in everything that I do, including the times when I disagree with them. After all, they taught me to stand on my own and fight for what I believe is right.
I’d like to be more productive as a person; to start my day early and not spend too much time in bed or in front of the TV.
I’d like to write more and hone my craft. 30 may be old, but I believe that nothing can ever be too late in life.
I’d love to go back to school, but I will not get pissed, or give-up, if I don’t get to do this anytime soon.
I’d also love to go back teaching, but I don’t want it to be my means of living. I just want it to be the channel on how I can make a small difference in this world.
Finally, I’d love to be reminded every moment, that what I think, say, and do, should all be reflective of one thing– that there is a God, who is my ultimate hope.
